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Old Sep 27, 2007, 06:07 PM
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masterbation sin?

Is masterbation a sin if you believe in God?

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Old Oct 6, 2007, 10:17 AM   #21  
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Lust is a sin, not masturbation. Let us not mix up the two. To masturbate does not necessarily involve lusting after another person. True lust is an obsession and dangerous. THe term lust has been overused to mean that a person looks at another and finds them willing to consider that person for copulation. Frankly, that is part of what God programed into us. If we are not interested in copulation, there would be no way to spread the word of God! Enjoy yourself, especially if it is your only means of release. You are not hurting God's feelings or hurting anyone else. People who have not practiced some sort of masturbation, also only tolerate sex. A healthy body and psyche enjoys the physical pleasures of the body God gave us.

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Wondergirl agrees: Well said. Perhaps a healthy lust can be for one's spouse, with fantasies developed and even played out in real life to add zest to the marriage?
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Old Oct 6, 2007, 10:37 AM   #22  
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Lust is a sin, not masturbation. Let us not mix up the two. To masturbate does not necessarily involve lusting after another person. True lust is an obsession and dangerous. THe term lust has been overused to mean that a person looks at another and finds them willing to consider that person for copulation. Frankly, that is part of what God programed into us. If we are not interested in copulation, there would be no way to spread the word of God! Enjoy yourself, especially if it is your only means of release. You are not hurting God's feelings or hurting anyone else. People who have not practiced some sort of masturbation, also only tolerate sex. A healthy body and psyche enjoys the physical pleasures of the body God gave us.

Matthew 5:28 But I say to you that everyone who so much as looks at a woman with evil desire for her has already committed adultery with her in his heart.

Mark 4:19 Then the cares and anxieties of the world and distractions of the age, and the pleasure and delight and false glamour and deceitfulness of riches, and the craving and passionate desire for other things creep in and choke and suffocate the Word, and it becomes fruitless.
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Old Oct 6, 2007, 11:33 AM   #23  
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What if the desire is not evil?

What's the definition of "evil desire"?

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Tj3 agrees: This was the point that I made earlier. No doubt the majority of the time wrongful lust enters into it, but we need to be careful not to generalize and to ignore the times when the "lust" canm be within the context of marriage for one's spouse.
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Old Oct 6, 2007, 11:40 AM   #24  
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Yeah i have to mention that wondergirl is right. The old testament laws were in the old covenant, the laws by which the jews must abide in order to seek atonement for their sins.

Agreed. The OT laws do provide us with a view as to God's standard for our lives, but it is a standard that we cannot hope to achieve on our own. The law was intended to make us aware of that and to point us to Christ. (Gal 3)

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And the seed on the ground wasnt in leviticus, waht i was thinking of was

Lev. 15:16 And if any man has a discharge of semen, he shall wash all his body in water, and be unclean until evening. 17And every garment and every skin on which the sperm comes shall be washed with water, and be unclean until evening.

I think that to say that the intent of this passage was masturbation is a stretch.
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Old May 20, 2008, 05:37 PM   #25  
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It's a sin regardless. It makes you create lust in your mind, which is a sin (Matt. 5:28).


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Hello Biggie My name is Bianca I am not aganist you I belive that masturabation is a sin and i dont cover my sin i have done a lot of bad things that is close to masterbation so it is easy for me to tell you about this. thank you for showing me this site and also thank you for telling the truth.i have a question for you what if you masterbate and repented and did it again would god for give you again and again of do you have a chance.
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Matthew 5:28 But I say to you that everyone who so much as looks at a woman with evil desire for her has already committed adultery with her in his heart.

Mark 4:19 Then the cares and anxieties of the world and distractions of the age, and the pleasure and delight and false glamour and deceitfulness of riches, and the craving and passionate desire for other things creep in and choke and suffocate the Word, and it becomes fruitless.
MASTURBATION CAUSES LUST THEY BOTH ARE SINS
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DO YOU THINK YOU SHOULD WAIT TO HAVE SEX AFETER YOU GET MARRIED I THINK IT IS MUCH SAFE BUT YOU THINK WHY DOES IT MATTER EVERYBODY DOES IT!
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LUST IS BAD LUST IS BAD LUST IS BAD DONT DO IT IN THE BIBLE IT SAYS SIN SIN SIN
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Old May 20, 2008, 06:37 PM   #30  
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Is masterbation a sin if you believe in God?

There are many people who believe in God and unfortunately we don't all agree on everything which constitutes sin.

Speaking as a Catholic, yes, masturbation is a mortal sin.

2396 Among the sins gravely contrary to chastity are masturbation, fornication, pornography, and homosexual practices.
CCC Search Result - Paragraph # 2396

So, I imagine you want to know why the Catholic Church considers masturbation a sin.

Because sex is so important that God ordained it for man and wife within the sacrament of Holy Matrimony for the procreation of children. Sex is a gift to man and wife whereby they give love to each other with the language of the body and it is open to life.

A man will cleave to his wife and they will be one flesh. This one flesh is the child that results from their union and he becomes the living icon of their love for each other and God's love for them.

So, sex practiced on oneself is neither open to life nor a gift of love between man and wife but is simply a spilling of the gift of life which God gave to man.

I hope that helps.

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