In a nutshell... why does my 19 year old daughter argue with me about everything! When I ask her to do something... response is usually "does it have to be done right now?" I can't stand how unkept she keeps her room. WHy do clothes have to be all over the floor? I think I just need to hear from others... does a mother daughter relationship get better? It wasn;t always like this and I miss the better days!