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i have 2 kids and theyre twins named kelsy and caileb and there only 6 months old and the mom left me alone to go with some other guy and now im by myself with them no one will help me and i love them so much but im working so hard to keep them healthy and i lost 40 pounds cuz i put them before me and i want them to have good life but how am i suposet to give that to them without a mom and how am i supose to give them that wen im always working and im never there to see them my parents help me out by watching them but thats it
i need help and i want to see them alot more than i have latly and i want them to have every thing i didnt have but the problem is that im 16 and i have school to so wat should i do please help me out
Do you live in the states? You should get child support from the mother and you should get government help. You can get free insurance for the kids, and you can get help for groceries, milk, diapers etc. You are young, but you can do this. Don't give up yet.
First go to your local child care services department and apply for subsidized childcare. You can have your mother watch your children and the State Child Care Services will pay her for watching your children, they do it here in Florida. Your mother does not have to be licensed because she is only watching children from one family. Check it out. Or you can have other daycare provider watch your children and use the State subsidy. Also, while you are there, ask them for other benefits. Believe me, there are great single dads out there who raised great kids. They'll grow up so fast before you know it. Enjoy them while they are little. Raising them will get easier everyday as they get older. Gob Bless.
Before this goes any further would you care to tell us all the TRUTH rather than making things up.
In one of your other posts you say you are alone and MALE, HERE and HERE now here you say you have TWO children and dating.
Now which is it or shall I just remove ALL these posts AND your account.
AMHD will NOT tolerate MISREPRESENTATION of any kind, especially somethig so juvenile.
Oh! I feel so used...I saw the other post about the family issues, but not the dating one...good call CurlyBen...Its posts like these that make people untrustful of others in real situations..
Before this goes any further would you care to tell us all the TRUTH rather than making things up.
In one of your other posts you say you are alone and MALE, HERE and HERE now here you say you have TWO children and dating.
Now which is it or shall I just remove ALL these posts AND your account.
AMHD will NOT tolerate MISREPRESENTATION of any kind, especially somethig so juvenile.
Hi Curlyben,
I think he is just trying to post on the right forum according to his needs for advice. Give him a break, he is just 16 years old. I think he is driven to this site by the people who are willing to help. Chill out.
Sincerely,
Happy Bisaya
This has happened a few times before and I caught another one. It pissed me off so much and just let the idiot that made the two seperate posts and hammered him for it. This reminds me of the post that the one father wanted his bratty daughter to go to boot camp. On his other post he was saying how his daughter is pregnant and he wants to kick her out and force her to have an abortion and if she did not listen to him he is going to beat her. Oh, I absolutely lost it.
Anyway, I know what it is like. Thank you Ben for letting others know about the discreptancy, good thing your on the ball ben. That saves everyone from wasting their valuble time on somebody that is just playing games.
Hi Curlyben,
How do you know that he is lying when I find nothing in his post that are contradicting to the other?
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I looked at all his post in his profile and I see nothing wrong with it beside a teenager talking. His post in the "relationship", he was asking about his relationship with a girl. Then in his post in the "Mental and Emotional Health", he is asking for help because nobody wants him around.
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His profile said that he is 16 years old.
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Rule #7 said that "do not misrepresent yourself". Like I said, I do not think that he is misrepresenting himself.
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Please enlighten me on his misrepresentation. This kid just needs our help.
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