Originally Posted by coolguy12
Excuse me? You are what, 12? She is 11? You don't have a Clue! You are too young to even be dating, let alone having sex.
Yes this is a big deal. Don't you understand that sex means babies. No one should be engaging in sexual intercourse until they are physically, financially and emotionally prepared to have a child. She SHOULD be scared. Not only of her parents finding out, but of becoming pregnant.
Yeah you are not a good boyfriend. A good boyfriend wouldn't try to pressure his girlfriend into doing something she's uncomfortable with. I'll bet you pressured her into letting you watch her dress. She probably did so to please you because she thinks she might lose you. That is an indication of her emotional immaturity.
And this whole question shows YOUR immaturity. But this is very easily solved. Ask her parents if it would be OK. If they approve then your girlfriend will stop worrying.
As to your going out a "long time" what do you call a long time? At your age, it can't be a long time. The fact is you are playing at adult behaviors WAY before you are ready.
And the last point, is would you like to go to jail? Depending on where you live it is probably illegal for her to have sex.