10 years is a long time to invest in a marriage, and you share a 7 year old together.
Before I would leave, I would explore all available options. To keep everything simmering inside without being able to express yourself is not healthy, and will not mend what is broken.
If you try to seek therapy, for both of you, or for yourself, and have someone listen to your concerns and offer advice and guidance, you may surprise yourself as to his reaction, when he finally realizes you are seriously thinking of leaving him, if issues are not resolved one way or the other.
Maybe he is not a good communicator, but with some help, and motivation, he may at least try.
He may never be the perfect mate, but if it is possible at all to make an effort for improvement, then I'd go that route first before I just gave up.
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