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Thank you Judy for saying that even the courts wouldn't even help me. This says to me that I was the cause of all of this. Not the case and I tried hard to be there. The courts here are one sided and...

In the post previous to this one, I explain a small amount of why I haven't seen my daughter which I cannot handle at all. Not being able to see her in the years has ate at my soul and I occasionally...

I am in CA and can't find my daughter. She is here in the San Bernardino area but mom and her guy have different names, different family members houses in different names and so on. How can I find...

If I only read one word in your post it would say your friend is screwed. That word is California. If your friend had to pay 100K and it took him five years to pay off at the current interest, he...

Hey SusanRJ,
I assure you my prayer is with you tonight. Sometimes doctors prescribe antibiotics and babies not having fully developed immune systems, become very susceptible to the things you...

At that point I felt no desire to live, to breathe, to do anything. The vicious vindictive game had started and I had to pay her, to support her way of life and what she is poisoning my daughter...

A little long but a true story; all must be taken into account to give the proper advices, not opinions.

I am 30 and have a 12 year old girl whom I haven't talked to for 5.5 years, we...

Hey Pammy,
I hope you find him since it will benefit everyone. Perhaps the fifteen y/o will finally begin to realize who she is and where she came from.
What would be very beneficial if...

Hey there JTST,

I am a dad of a girl whom I haven't seen in years. It causes me so much pain to wake up and go through another day without her. But, I used to owe a lot of child support so I...

I said to myself the same things you mentioned in the initial post. I wondered how God would allow my dad to beat me senseless, how my mom would sell us out for a meth addict and his two kids and...

You put it best startover, first line- the father basically has the right to pay child support. What rights do fathers have really? Name a few??

My friend, a business owner I know grew up in...

Hey,
I am not sure of the local laws or every other law in your area. But my feeling is that the money should be for you and especially if you are going to college. If not it would be exposed...

Hey there,

Good to hear back. It seems that you have bent over backwards and now staring at the sidewalk. I suppose this is the way he wants to live and let him live it, let him figure out...

Hi Shanny,

I feel bad for you, I really do. When I was 18 I met my kid's mother. I loved her too intensely for human words; every third thought was of her, every thing I wanted...

Hang in there man,
This one-sided system guarantees a woman maximum fiduciary benefit and at times in CA, a permanent pension on our dime. Write your child and send it registered mail. Send...

Hello and wow!
I do not judge your post so I ask you to read and understand mine. I have a daughter and in every way an obstacle was put in place by her mother for me not to continue to talk to...

Although you may not feel he is a good dad and he may not be, you are giving your son his opinion. One day he may begin to question everything that is said and find out for himself. One day he may go...

Dandkmapp!
I am excited for you man! I am in almost the same situation as you are. I havent seen my daughter for 11 years. I wanted to but military, merchant marine, fishing boats,...

Hello CLT,
My brief story and laslty my 2 cents.

I was in a similar situation. I got my girlfriend pregnant when I was 17 turning 18, although it would be years before I found...

NCDad,
I am completely shocked after reading your ordeal and I feel your pain, for real!I am in the middle of trying to see my daughter after not speaking for 6 years and not seeing her for 10...

Dear Sammynewmom,
I grew up in this same situation. I had no friends for a very long time, until my late teens. I was 26 when for the first time I met real true friends.
My heart...