| As a parent I am all for letting your child discover and learn to use the toilet when they are ready, I think 20 months is a little young, It should never be forced and if you pressure a child it will only back fire. I think children need to make there own choice when they want to stop using the baby diaper and use the big kid toilet. You can guide them and give them options, like buying potty training diapers, potty seat, reward stickers, there own special toilet paper and soap. They'll eventually want to learn and use the potty on there own. Let them be free. That's what I did and my daughter was out of diapers at the age of three and she has never had an accident, not even at night. |