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änchored · #1 Jun 30, 2007, 10:28 PM

Hello,
I need Help!!!
ok my Mom is saying that my dad is not paying my mom not money for child support
when i know he is and i don't know what to do
cause my Dad said that if he doesn't pay it he can get into a lot of Trouble
so i need help cause i don't know what to do to help my Dad and if any of u know how to help just message me please!!!
Thanks

änchored

Clough · Jun 30, 2007, 10:33 PM

I would ask your dad to show you the documents that proves he is paying child support, if this has been done through the court. Has child support been arrainged though a court system?

It would help to know in what country you live to make a more helpful answer to you.

änchored · Jun 30, 2007, 10:36 PM

well i am not really sure i mean i am only 15........
and i live in Canada

Clough · Jun 30, 2007, 10:38 PM

I know that this can be a really confusing issue for you. It is for anyone at any age. I would ask your dad if he has documents to show that he must pay child support and how much he must pay. If he is saying that he could get into a lot of trouble by not paying the child support, then chances are that the arrangement for child support has been done through a court.

änchored · Jun 30, 2007, 10:41 PM

well i know that my dad is paying her and she is making up bull lies about
how she can't even buy me any clothes cause she is so broke
and i am like !!! cause my dad is paying her and i don't think he would lie to me
but yeah she makes up lies saying how she can't buy me anything when she goes to stores and buys stuff 4 her self
like i need that $$ 4 me so i canb get stuff i need

Jesushelper76 · Jun 30, 2007, 10:42 PM

My mom, always hid the fact about child support from me when I was younger. Always looking for him and when payments were given. Had no idea about it.

When I turned 18 or 19 and I was living out of the house my father thought all he needed was a letter from me stating that I was no longer living at home.

It also depends on how much your dad owes. It all depends on if it was done through court or not as Clough said.

Jesushelper76 · Jun 30, 2007, 10:43 PM

Ah, so you think that instead of spending money to support you she is using the money to support herself.

I know exactly how you feel. I never knew when my mother was getting money or how much and never seen a thing.

EDIT:::::::::::

If your father does it through the courts then he should have proof that he has been making payments.

If it is not through courts and there is only cash involved, no way to prove it.

Unless he has been writing checks.

Joe

änchored · Jun 30, 2007, 10:46 PM

yeah exactly
but i hate it cause my friends are buying me stuff when my freakin Mother won't
so i just need a Mom to buy me stuff
and take care of me cause i still can't do it.

and how old r u??

änchored · Jun 30, 2007, 10:52 PM

well i don't really know what
to do anymore but what i do know is that i want my parents to stop liein to me

Clough · Jun 30, 2007, 10:53 PM

You still need to ask your dad about whether or not the child support has been arranged through a court and if he has documentation concerning it.

==Edit in addition to the above==

Until you know that, it is difficult to give you concrete answers.



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