My 23 year old son moved out of the city when he went to college. He wasn't able to continue because of financial problems. Jobs have dried up and he isn't able to get work, and I found that he was selling his blood to buy food. I talked him into moving home with me and my new husband. He doesn't want to be here but he can't get work and move back home. Problem is that he Won't look for work here. He sits in his room all day. He doesn't even shower or shave. Talking doesn't help, he won't talk and apparently doesn't listen. Its creating massive tension between my husband and I. I can't throw him into the streets with nothing, but I can't force him to listen to me and do what he should to help himself. What do I do?