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Originally Posted by J_9 You need to get her into counseling immediately. She needs to talk out her anger issues. This is totally unacceptable.
It is not a waste of time or money if you continue to take her there. She knows you will give up, so she remains tight lipped. You can 't give up, just take her no matter what. You may even want to consider family counseling. |
Mom of one daughter,
Please read this again. She
KNOWS you will give up if she doesn't talk, so she doesn't talk, you think therapy doesn't help. She is manipulating you. Therapy for some can take many years. Not weeks, not months, but years.
Whatever you do, don't let her get the upper hand. She already thinks she has it. So, dig your heals in, be strong. This is totally unacceptable.
Just think, if it is not taken care of now, what about when she has a child, the child is sick and will not sleep, will cry, etc and etc.....
Nip the problem in the bud now, while you can.