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i certainly never said that children are trash. i would never say anything like that about children. i love kids, if i could be a part of this boys life i would i and i was tryign. but you all seem to be missing the big picture his mother is refusing to let me have any contact with him. so blah, blah, blah back at all of you. i will be judged by the same god that will judge you. so back the f off. no his mother is not refusing me contact with him because i am a bad father. she is the one hurting the child because i certainly can give him more than what she can and i will give him love also. another thing she is living off of the government. so i dont care waht you think, i could give a rats tail. so you can agree with whomever you want. enjoy yourselves.
why wouldn't you take her to court to enforce visitation? Do you even have a visitation order? There are legal channel to go down before relinquishing rights. What would you say if your child track down in 18 years? Oh I gave up my rights to you because your mother was being mean? How do you think that would make your child feel? I imagine they would feel pretty worthless that their dad didn't think they were worth a fight.
i have constantly filed the papers for court. each time i am denied without even being able to reply. i do not know what else to do. every attorney that i ahve spoken with all say that their is nothing that they can do. if you can reply back with positive feedback please do. if negative save it.
yep, true I was 6 when my mom and dad split and he showed up when I was in my 30's. He said my granny was mean to him and my mom would not stand up for him...Boo Hoo. No support from him not one dime am I bitter hell yeah. Do I have time for him? no He continues to call and I continue to tell him I'm busy don't have time. To me he is just another human on this earth that doesn't give a damn about others so I have no use for him or people like him. Even if you can't see the boy pay the support and shut up , beacuse if my dad had at least shown me that he gave a damn that I had food in my belly then maybe I would be willing to try. One thing people can't lie about is the records that show where a person has paid into CSEA. Do the right thing pay the small amount of money every week even if that is the only thing you ever do for him. btw I am 45 now.
why is there a block against this? I was always under the impression that the court had to uphold the orders already in place. What does your visitation order state?
i have never been giving visitation rights. everytime that i send in the paperwork his mother would tell the magistrate that i have never been a part of this childs life. she does not tell them anything about her denying me the right to see him. she lives in one state and i live in another. the very last time that went we to court and i before i could even say two words about why i should have rights to see him since i am legally responsible for taking care of him by paying child support. he called my name and th eboys mother name and immediately said this case is dismissed. do not bring this before me anymore. i do not stand a chance. the courts are always for the mothers no matter what.
I think there is more to this story then you are telling us. There is no way that they can do that. And if you hired a lawyer and they failed as well then your lawyer wasnt very good. And the court is not always in the mothers favor. I would get a new laywer, and if the judge has something agenst you then i would ask to see a different judge for this matter you can do that. What states do you and her live in?
Something is going on here that you aren't telling us about, or you are making up the bit about going to court.
No court is going to deny visitation unless the child is in danger. My daughter will be 6 this December, her father hasn't seen her since she was 15 months old, and the courts still set up a visitation order.
The pieces just aren't fitting here....either there is some legitimate reason why you aren't allowed to see the child, or its just you don't want to thus don't try.
I agree that we are probably not hearing the whole story. I don't believe what you claim the attorneys are telling you unless you are telling them the whole story.
their you all go again with i do not believe you, or you are not telling the whole story. once again i have no reason to lie, yes i have gone to court repeatedly and have spoken with everyone with that stae to see what my options are. his mother says that i do not know him and that the boy does not know me. and since we live seven states apart the only visitation would be in the summer. of course the mother said that during the summer months they go back to here home state and visit. this chidl is not in any danger with me for whomever made that comment. if that was the case i would not be here with my other children. if you cannot offer something positive or helpful dont reply.
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