Why is my period light after losing my virginity?

Temper temper, this is why little girls shouldn't have sex

Yes I might be a 13 year old girl with a temper. Oh well. IDGAF.
All I asked was 1 question.

If you keep this up I'll guarantee you this, you will get pregnant.

No school for you because you stay home and take care of the baby.

You may marry the guy who is the father and half the time he doesn't work so you live in the projects.

There will be more babies and by the time you're twenty or twenty one , you'll look ten years older.

You'll be stuck and so will he.

Think about it. You can turn your life around today.

Go to school, study hard, make good grades.

Leave the sex alone till you're old enough.

It's your life you can throw it away trying to play grown up or you can go right on giving your body to this guy.

You are the one who has to decide. I hope you make the right decision.

I already made mistakes in my life.
Dropping out last year.
I'm back in school now.
Rough year, went through separation with siblings
And a lot of other stuff. I will make the right choices.
IDC what it takes to get into college
I already picked what college I'm going to.

To get into a great college you have to study hard.

Don't give yourself to someone just because the urge hits you.

If you want to go on to College you better make some drastic changes.

Its great you want to go to college. But if you keep this up now you may not make it to college. Yes you can use protection but what if it fails? Do you want a baby ruining your plans?

We can't force you to do anything. But please think about what were saying. Don't cut your self short. Let yourself have a bright future ahead!

I have.
I stopped
Cutting myself
And drug use.
Yes I know what you you are thinking.
And I don't have really the best of people to grow up around ):

If you have had two periods since you chose to have unprotected sex, and both periods have been more like spotting, or very light as you said, you could indeed, be pregnant. That's what happens when you have unprotected sex. The test could be a false negative.

The first thing you need to do is get to your Doctor, and have a pregnancy test done. If you aren't pregnant, there is still something happening that has caused your normal period flow, to almost stop, and that needs to be addressed as well.

You ask, "Can anyone help me out?", and the fact is, you have already been helped out with some very good, point blank advice, about the dangerous choices you have made, and as well, how to change your life around.

When you start having sex, no matter what form of birth control you use, you risk, by choice, getting pregnant. The only surefire way not to get pregnant at age 13 (or any age) is to not engage in sex. It really is that simple. Your anatomy is no different than the anatomy of the female species since the beginning of time.

What you do when you choose to be sexually active, is risk losing every dream you've ever had for your future. While your non sexually active friends concentrate on school, and go on to college, you may very well find yourself instead, in a delivery room in a hospital screaming your head off while a baby pushes its way through you into the world. And that is the easy part. Raising a child at your age requires the help and expense of many, including anyone who pays taxes. If you think you can have it all, you can't. Why risk hopes and dreams by choosing to have sex.

More importantly, why bring a child into the world, when you are legally a child still yourself. You think that, from what I've read, that losing your virginity is a ho-hum sort of event, and even though you are new to having sex, you had sex three times, and left yourself wide open for pregnancy on one of those three times. Each time you have sex, you risk pregnancy even with protection. Without protection is like holding a loaded gun to your head and playing chicken.

I think you can stop. If you aren't pregnant, make a promise to yourself to not have sex until you are at least five years older than you are right now. Choose your partners carefullly when you are ready, and don't settle for bragging rights to having a boyfriend you can wrap around your little finger, or for a boyfriend who is mentally unstable as yours is, when he cuts himself because he's upset. Do you see what I mean by this being more of a risk than you realize? Think of the path you are on, and the people you are on that path with, and do you really want a lifelong commitment at age 13 to an immature boy, and a baby?

Turn this around. IF you aren't pregnant, write out a list of the things dream about accomplishing. Open your world to possibilities, instead of shutting them out. What do you want for your life, what do you want to be when you go to study at college. How are you going to get there, save money, take on a part time job, etc. What are you willing to do for yourself, while it is still (hopefully) a wide open world of possibilities where nothing and nobody can stop you from reaching any goal.

If you have such a list, I'd like to see it. Let's see if there isn't more to you than what you have said so far, including my suspicion that you probably agree with some, if not all, that has been said to you so far.

Take this to heart. Read what jake has written and read it more than once. Make that list.

Nope, you're wrong. It doesn't work that way.

Unless you're in a state where the legal age for sex is 13, you're both doing something illegal.

Nice try though. They have laws for a reason. The reason that they have made it against the law for a 13 year old to have sex is because a 13 year old doesn't have the common sense, maturity, or intelligence to make these kinds of decisions.

You're a child, act like one. Keep your legs crossed.