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Old Aug 2, 2007, 02:04 PM
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My son is not speaking

My son is almost 2 and 1/2 and only says 4 words. He's a very happy little boy, he's also intelligent and likes to be around other people but when I see other children I worry that he's not developing the same way as them. He was also a very late walker, he walks fine now. Someone told me he could be autistic, this terrifies me, his doctor told me to wait and see what happens until he's three. I'm worried, can someone tell me anything?. I shouldn't leave out that I'm from Spain and I only speak spanish to him.

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Old Aug 2, 2007, 02:21 PM   #2  
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He might just have a speech delay. Both of my sons have severe delays, but my daughter is fine. Both of them got speech teachers from the age of two and both of them went to and one is currently going to speech school at the age of 3. My older son was worse and talks great now. I wouldnt wait, go to your dr and get a referral for a speech evaluation. The earlier they start working with him the better! Good luck

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GlindaofOz agrees: Yes my cousin didn't speak very much until he was 4 - he's now 8 and we can't shut that kid up! :)
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Old Aug 2, 2007, 02:25 PM   #3  
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Where do you live? In many states the public schools will do a screening for delays prior to preschool. They can also screen for hearing problems. I had my daughter evaluated in Washington State when she was 2 and a half. She was also not speaking. She was found to be developmentally delayed. They started her in a developmental preschool. She still receives Special Education services. If he is found to be learning disabled...keep in mind. It is not your fault. There is nothing you could have done differently to prevent a learning disability. AND finally, and I think most importantly, there is nothing to FIX. Your child is not broken, he may learn differently. You may have to use resources to help him adjust. I hope this helps.

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GlindaofOz agrees: Thank you for saying that I have friends who teach Special Ed and say there biggest hurdle is getting parents to understand that they did nothing wrong and there is nothing to "fix"
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Old Aug 2, 2007, 05:20 PM   #4  
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My son is almost 2 and 1/2 and only says 4 words. He's a very happy little boy, he's also intelligent and likes to be around other people but when I see other children I worry that he's not developing the same way as them. He was also a very late walker, he walks fine now. Someone told me he could be autistic, this terrifies me, his doctor told me to wait and see what happens until he's three. I'm worried, can someone tell me anything?. I shouldn't leave out that I'm from Spain and I only speak spanish to him.
Some children don't begin to speek untill older than that, some times they just don't have anything to say.

If you are worried I am sure there is some way you could have him speech tested or some thing similar, not sure what they offer where you are.
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Children do things such as crawl, walk, talk, potty train, etc. in their own time. My son is 2, almost 3, and he just barely started talking, but it was weird...when he realized he could do it, he never stopped talking
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has his hearing been tested? if he interacts with others well, then he is not likely to be Autistic.

get it checked NOW. a parent knows when something is not right-push the issue to get a hearing test
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Clap and you will know, as stated children often speak when they are ready. As parents we often can make a mountain out of a mole hill.
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why doesn't my son talk at 3 yrs old
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why doesn't my son talk at 3 yrs old

Does he say any words at all? Any words are better than no words. Some 3 year olds speak jibberish with some words in between, does your son do that?
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Old Aug 6, 2007, 08:15 AM   #10  
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He now says 6 words: agua=water, hola=hi, bye, papa (he says papa and mama and knows who we are but doesn't call us anything) and recently learned to say Epi=Elmo in spanish.
By the way, we live in Bayonne, NJ and I know for a fact that he doesn't have a hearing problem.
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