Ok first off you go girl !!!! Now since im guessing your honestly a virgin then maybe you dont know what a real orgasam feels like. There are such things as small tingles or body thrills but an actual orgasam can cripple your knees (if your lucky enough

) There is nothing wrong with "getting off " it can actually make your day better - not worse. Just remember though when you do get with the person thats going to um well lets just say -deflower you- To show them what YOU like and trust me honey it will be worth it. A woman shoud know what sends her happy button a dancin ' - how else are we going to know what we like and dont like right ????
Good luck and remember to wash your hands !!!!
