im 16 and think i could be pregnant

rhizbaybee92 · #1 Sep 6, 2008, 12:10 PM

i am not on the pill.. me and my boyfriend use the "pull out" method if we have no condoms. me and my boyfriend had unprotected sex on the 24th june. but he "puled out" before he c*me. i then came on on the 28th of june. we had unprotected sex again on the 18th of july and the 1st of august, but on these two ocassions he did c*m before he "pulled out" . I was meant to have my period on the 26th of july but i didnt, i then missed another period on the 23rd of august. I had unprotected sex again on the 28th of august using contraception but the condom split. So i missed two periods. I took two pregnancy tests the day after i missed my secon period, one in the night which came up negative with only one red line, but the one i took in the morning had the negative line but also in the background there was a faint red line is it positive? I came on on the 4th of this month but it was much lighter than normall. I have been having sharp pains in my stomach and tender breasts, i thought these were down to the fact i was coming on, but now my period has stopped there still there. Am i pregnant? Real worried.

danielnoahsmommy · Sep 6, 2008, 12:24 PM

you can very well be pregnant. the pull out method is not birth control. girls who use the pull out method called mommies. i hope you are prepared for motherhood. unless you are prepared for the consequences, may be hold off on sex.

a light line is still a line. go to your nearest clinic and get a blood test. you may very well be a mommy.

spyderglass · Sep 6, 2008, 02:41 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by rhizbaybee92

i am not on the pill.. me and my boyfriend use the "pull out" method if we have no condoms. me and my boyfriend had unprotected sex on the 24th june. but he "puled out" before he c*me. i then came on on the 28th of june. we had unprotected sex again on the 18th of july and the 1st of august, but on these two ocassions he did c*m before he "pulled out" . I was meant to have my period on the 26th of july but i didnt, i then missed another period on the 23rd of august. I had unprotected sex again on the 28th of august using contraception but the condom split. So i missed two periods. I took two pregnancy tests the day after i missed my secon period, one in the night which came up negative with only one red line, but the one i took in the morning had the negative line but also in the background there was a faint red line is it positive? I came on on the 4th of this month but it was much lighter than normall. I have been having sharp pains in my stomach and tender breasts, i thought these were down to the fact i was coming on, but now my period has stopped there still there. Am i pregnant? Real worried.

From personal experience- tender breasts and missed periods mean pregnancy-
you possibly took the Pregnancy test too soon
You need to decide whether you want to keep the child or not
go to a doctor- to confirm
Don't tell your boyfriend YET
I couldn't of lived with an abortion myself
but i wasn't in high school
what it comes down to is
are you ready for this or not?
if not adoption is a very good possiblility-
if you keep your child- trust me it can be very rewarding
but it is very hard-
don't let people tell you that you can't finish school or go to college
you could go to college for almost free if you have a child
you have a lot of thinking to do
don't think of the present ramifications
think of your future and what you want
and think of what would be best for the baby-

denilah · Sep 11, 2008, 11:54 AM

You must be pretty freaked out and scared right now. I know I was when I was 15. Best bet is to get to doctor's office and get the full testing done, so that you know. Jeeps, I spent so much money on pregnancy tests when I was a teenager, eventually condoms would have been way cheaper.
This is a scary time for you...don't get too p'd off at other peoples opinions. You do need to do what is right for you, but honey, you can't do anything if you get too stuck in denial. Take care of yourself and don't be too hard on yourself and make sure you have someone you trust that you can talk to...like a non-judgemental friend or another adult. One of the first people I talked to was my High School math teacher....he knew what to do better than i did at the time, and he totatlly didn't judge me. Find someone like that...

jb



At Ask Me Help Desk you can ask questions in any topic and have them answered for free by our experts. To ask questions or participate in answering them you must register for a free account. By registering you will be able to: Get free answers from experts in any of our 300+ topics. Accept money for answers that you provide. Communicate privately with other members (PM). See fewer ads. Sign Up!