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First time sex at age 13?

Asked Dec 19, 2011, 08:58 PM — 12 Answers
Hi, I'm 13 and me and my boyfriend are at the stage where we have agreed to take our relationship to the next level with sex. We have known each other for almost 3 years and have been very good friends. We have been dating for about 7 months and think we are ready. I would like to know as much about it as possible and have been doing some online research about the topic. He is definitely not pressuring me as we have made the decision as a couple. As this will be each of our first times, I would like to know about the following questions ~
- How much does it hurt the first time?
- How long will the pain last?
- Is there a way to decrease the amount of pain expected during sex?

~ Feedback is required urgently. Thank you ~

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Dec 19, 2011, 09:16 PM


Yes it hurts, physcially you may not even be ready for it yet.
Mature wise you are far from ready for it.
For the boy, of course once he has sex with you he is a rapist since you are not old enough to give consent.
So there is no better way to say I love you, than make him a criminal.
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Dec 19, 2011, 09:28 PM
You're going to make him a criminal at only 13? And you're seriously going to lose your virginity at 13? The chances of you also making it to marriage as well and staying together for over a year are horribly low too. I think you need to reconsider. Plus you are just not ready for this..Trust me kid.
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Dec 19, 2011, 09:34 PM
Diverting from the criminal side of this, it is our choice. I simply wanted an answer about my questions. Besides, it was just an idea. And yeah i know that the chances of us getting married is pretty low but you have to start somewhere.
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Dec 19, 2011, 09:40 PM


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but you have to start somewhere.
Not when he's at risk of being sent to prison as a rapist/child molester and being labeled a sex offender for the rest of his life. Don't you care about him at all?
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Dec 19, 2011, 09:44 PM
of course i do. but thanks for your input
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Dec 19, 2011, 09:46 PM


Then you'll say, "No, let's wait until we have emotionally matured and are physically ready for this. We don't need a baby at our age."
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Dec 19, 2011, 09:51 PM
yes, that is also a concern. contraception is vital and we are going to be vigilant about the matter. thanks all for your advice (:
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Dec 19, 2011, 09:53 PM
How do you plan to be "vigilant"?
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Dec 19, 2011, 09:56 PM
by making sure we use protection? im closing this discussion now.
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