Ok so I'm 16 and i got my period on the 23rd and my period only lasts 4 days since I first got my period which was about 2 years ago. It's now the 30th and since yesterday my lower back has been hurting a lot.. and the last few days my stomach has been hurting. yesterday when i woke up i felt really sick like puking but i didnt. I've been getting a weird kind of discharge that Ive never got before.. it's like brownish orange and slimy.. and yesterday when i went pee 2 small chunks came out with a little bit of blood.. hardly any though.. today i have more discharge in my underwear and when i wipe. My boyfriend and I DON'T use condoms but he pulls out. I'm not sure if this has anything to do with pregnancy because I got my period but I'm curious of what it is. I talked to my boyfriend about it and he said we should go to the doctor tomorrow and I should get checked out, but I'm really curios right now. Please help!

Altenweg

Can't tell you if you are pregnant, only a home pregnancy test, urine or blood test at the doctor can tell you that, and not until your period is late. I can tell you that using the "pull out" method as birth control, is not birth control, you might as well be trying to get pregnant, because you will sooner or later if you continue to have unprotected sex, which you are doing. I guess the question is, do you want a baby, can you afford a baby, can you physically take care of a baby? If not, then get on birth control and use a condom, even then, not 100% safe, so sex=babies, you're playing with fire.

califaschia

i honestly don't kno wat i could be..but because the rate of teens with std's is so high...i really encourage a trip 2 the dr.

simoneaugie

Sound like you have an infection. You may be pregnant too. Your boyfriend pulling out does not not prevent pregnancy. Get yourself checked out ASAP.

Kpark

I know I can get pregnant by the "pull out" method, but what I said was I dont think it would be pregnancy because i just had my period.

Tamsin

Girly i have a question 4 you, and on saturday night a friend and I made out... And well it went a bit far, HOW ON EARTH DO YOU TAKE THE PAIN OF A MAN BEING INSIDE YOU? Do you think it helps if you are emotionally atteched??

Kpark

Tamsin, being emotionally attached is a big part of losing your virginity. In my view, you should be very comfortable with the person and truly feel you can trust them. Trust is a big part for me.. My boyfriend and I had tried having sex for months but it hurt everytime, mostly because I was so tensed up. I respect him for waiting for so long. But after a few months I just let it happen and it didn't hurt so much. I think you should wait until you are with someone who you know respects you and your body and will wait for you, until YOU are ready.

growing_up

Tamsin, you dont need to have sex even if you DO feel strongly about a person. If it hurts it means your not physically ready or you are too nervous. Do other things instead which are more enjoyable for you until you are ready. Good luck! If he is worth it he willl stick around and support you.