Hi Emachinesxp,
I'm really not sure what this is. Due to the color, or lack thereof, you are describing, they may not necessarily be ingrown hairs. The hair typically isn't visible with such. Generally it doubles back upon itself before emerging from the skin, causing a fair degree of irritation, leading the inflamed follicle to become quite red. Though the hair will generally, eventually emerge on its own in this case.
As well, I wouldn't think tumescence would necessarily cause them to increase in size, though the added pressure might increase the amount of pain or irritation experienced.
It is possible it is still some sort of irritation or infection of the hair follicle. If applying lotion helps, you could continue to do so for a while, but be aware that any containing mineral oil could potentially clog pores and perhaps aggravate certain conditions.
If they aren't causing you any serious discomfort, or exuding any discharge of any sort, you could try the lotion a bit longer, or take warm baths to help open the skin's pores. But if you don't begin to see a decrease in symptoms soon, it would be a good idea to have it checked by a doctor. It doesn't seem like it's anything serious, but you may need a doctor to prescribe something. It's always better to know what it is.
I do hope you find the answer soon. Take care.
