Hi there
I know the feeling dude, I caught my girl with
mobilespy.com
Install the corrosponding software to here phone and run it. That's if it's compatable with here phone.
What this sotware does is record the messages and call logs. It sends these logs to the mobilespy website every 30min or so.
To view to reports, just goto their website and login.
It only gives a 7day trial though
Listen, if you really love this person, try to work things out first.
AND IMPORTANT, if you love her and want to be with here, do not tell her about the software... She will hate you EXTREMELY for this. Rather look on the logs for a damning sms and confront here by telling here you received a msg from here saying:"....". So she whould think she put in your number by mistake...
You know the 80/20 rule right? Basically it means that a spouse will always only give and get 80% from you, that 20% only other people can give. When they leave you, they go for that 20% and realize that very quickly that they made a mistake and want to return. If this happens once, let her come back and learn from the experience...
If this does not stop, then, I can't make that choice...
Cheers
Grant