I'll give you my honest answer, but I can only base it on the information you provide. You originally said:
Originally Posted by
Johnnybegood_5
... i asked her to to talk to this other guy anymore and she was fine with it but now just recent i found out she is talking to him after i told her not to ...
Then added:
Originally Posted by
Johnnybegood_5
... she told me she stay away from him for me adn now shes shareing a locker with him ...
So with this additional information... Yes, it certainly sounds like she is not being very respectful to your feelings. Have you asked her about it? Did you make demands, or tell her how you feel? Is this guy "just a friend", or can you see there is something more to it?
You also said:
Originally Posted by
Johnnybegood_5
...i just can't find it in me to trust her anymore ... im getting very angry about her not telling me stuff...
Maybe your brain is telling you that she is untrustworthy, but your heart doesn't want to hear it. Maybe she sees what you call "secrets" as "her privacy". Have you asked her about her it, or are you speculating based on "tidbits" of details you've seen?
Originally Posted by
Johnnybegood_5
...should i not be worried...
There are subtle nuances here that can make a huge difference. It's not possible for anyone to know from your post whether you're a smart guy noticing things of concern, or simply jealous and insecure.
I hope you are being honest, and not adding this to make sure you "look right".
The bottom line is communication. If you're concerned, you need to talk to her about how her behaviour makes you feel, and what she wants to have with you. Don't play "what if" games. Get the information you need and make a decision about your relationship.