I forgot to update - Yep, I went and bought a teardown manual for it.
So - it says "test to see if there is power to fuel pump" ... hmm, k, check - no power there. Then it wanted me to test the main relay - unplugged it, jumped it with a 12V source and found no continuity in the pins it said I should have. Got a new one at the Honda shop for $58 .. she's runnin like a charm.
