Well, the bridge looks like it might hurt. I'm thinking about gettting one or both.
Should i?
now, im only 16. I wanted my labert done but my mom said yes and my dad said no. I'm really diying to get it done. If i dont get it now, i'll just get alot more when i turn 18. If i get it now, i'll probably change and have it closed up by the time i'm 18.
How can i get my dad to let me? I'll just try it myself if i can't go get it done. I don;t care if i die from it. I want it that bad. It wasnt until he said no that i decided about the bridge too.

Wondergirl

"The bridge looks like it might hurt" and "i'll probably change and have it closed up by the time i'm 18" don't make this sound very positive.

It sounds more like you want piercings to defy your father than to adorn your body.

beth911

I want it to express myself.

Wondergirl

And what will it say about you that a h.s. diploma won't?

nauticalstar420

This is not smart. Dying is not worth a piercing. There is nothing you can do to a needle to sterilze it enough for piercing. It needs an autoclave. Otherwise, you will more than likely get infected, it'll look nasty, and it'll be on your face! Does that sound like something you want?

If your Dad wont let you get it, then dont get it. You are 16. In 2 years you'll be 18 and of legal age to do whatever you want. It will not kill you to wait 2 years. If your Dad wont let you get it done, then no piercer will allow it. If you try to do it behind his back, you are in for more trouble than the piercing is worth, trust me.

Just wait. Thats what I had to do, and is what most people have to do.

beth911

I'm afraid of everyone else stealing my idea. I need it ASAP before they do.

Wondergirl

I'm sure it's been done. And that's no reason.

And what good would it do anyway since you say no one cares about you.

nauticalstar420

Your idea? Wondergirl is right, its been done, about a million times. Just wait hun, piercings will still be around when you turn 18.

beth911

i know its been done. but more and more ppl are getting it and i dont want it to look like i'm trying to be like them. i wanna look different. So if anything at all they would be the ones trying to be like me but i never wanna be like anyone and hopefully they wouldnt do it anyways.

its the only way left for me to really show who i am

Wondergirl

Geez. It is not the only way to show who you are! Don't be a sheep and follow the crowd and do the same ol' things they do. Be REALLY different!