how to convince parents to get industrial piercing

Nickyblinks · #1 Jun 22, 2007, 08:21 PM

well ever since my friend convinced me to get the industrial piercing, ITS BEEN ALL I COULD THINK ABOUT. its driving me crazy and my friend is supposed to get it next month. im supposed to go with her. when i first asked my mom she said she would think about it(and i know her, it was more like a yes and not just because thats what i wanted the answer to be) then one day i showed it to her at the mall and she asked me if i really wanted it? and that it was ugly. then another day i showed her another one and i had been sooo excited about it and she flat out said no

. i was in complete shock and now im obsessed with it.

. i already tried asking her and said its just on my ear and that im a good student but i dont know wat else to say! please help me come up with a good exuse i already know all the risks and i know that i am allowed to get it underage in my state as long as i have permission from my mom. im 16

shygrneyzs · Jun 22, 2007, 08:59 PM

Your Mom said no. She is responsible for you. If there were any consequences to this piercing, she would have to take care of that. I have seen pics of industrial piercings and I am on your Mom's side with this. No minor child of mine would get one either. If he or she would want one that bad, he or she can get one when they are out of the house and paying their own bills. Maybe this won't seem so attractive in a few years.

Dennis777 · Jun 22, 2007, 09:12 PM

Hello.

Im sure your Mom has a good reason for saying no. As you said she thought about it and didn't say no until she checked into it. If its something you really want then give it some time and show her that your not just wanting it because your friend has it.

Remember your asking your Mom to trust you and treat you like an adult so don't blow it and act like a child because she said no.

Good Luck
Dennis777

saraispiel19 · Jun 22, 2007, 09:16 PM

if your mom sαys no then you hαve α slim to none chαnce of doing it-- your most likely obsessed with it becαuse you cαn't hαve it. if your 13 then i cαn see where she's going by sαying no... whαt is the αge of mαjority? 18?...

btw i hope you hαven't toyed with the thought to forge her signαture- it's illegαl αnd you'll get into α hell of α lot of trouble with the mommα... or if you find someone who does it illegαlly then you know it's not sαfe-- there αre diseαses out there like Hepαtitis.. wαit till your older αnd do your reseαrch before you get it done in the future..

Nickyblinks · Jun 22, 2007, 09:47 PM

k well i have no tolerance for pain! im seriouly telling u my biggest fear just might be needles but i honestly dont care because i really want one! lol and im a sissy when it comes to these things i just know theres a way i can convince my mom.

Nickyblinks · Jun 22, 2007, 09:57 PM

i was really excited before because i thought she had said yes but i just dont wanna wait. i know my mom is always right and i always listen to what she says because i like having a good relationship with her but this is just a peircing on my ear! dont u think shes exaggerating a bit? ive asked for one on my lip before and she said no and i can understand that but not this. and wat do u mean by a hollow needle...how big?

Nickyblinks · Jun 22, 2007, 10:37 PM

thanks and you kinda scared me alittle by the way haha but really can i just get advice on how to convince my mom ??



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