can i start with, oh my god. i had mine done 5 days ago and the pain for me is unbearable. i am not writing this to scare anyone, i just need help straight away! when i had it pierced with the needle it hardly hurt and after didnt hurt much and wasnt too bad for a couple of days. im one of them REALLLY stupid girls and after 2 days i took it out to see the hole and to clean it properly because i cant get to it (its a very random piercing as close to my head as you can go in the cartilage). i was in great pain and crying my eyes out, i couldnt breathe either. then i couldnt get it back in and the back had soon healed in 15 mins or so. i had to shove the needle back and and kind of re-pierce it. ever since i cant even go outside for long because the wind hurts it. half of my ear is too sore to touch, not to mention the actual piercing. when i put my hair behind my ears i continually bang it, and every time i bathe it i cry. if i touch it i was honestly scream and whale. i can twist it from the back, it hurts but i can bear it, but i cannot twist it from the front. when i step and the stud shakes it hurts me so i cant really walk anywhere. its red, burning and very swollen, but not bleeding and has no puss or anything. if i move the stud in any direction in the hole it hurts when moving it about half a mm, from both the back and the front. i have never had such bad pain in my life. i do bathe it, even though like i said earlier its VERY painful and i cry a lot, it makes me feel sick too. i use warm salt water. when it isnt touched and my hair is back i don't remember it is there. i cant lie on it at all. is this normal or what? i have only had it done for 6 days so is it like this for a little longer? how long should it be like this? should i take it out and let it heal (OUCHHHHH :'(!!!!!)? should i go the doctors and have it checked out? HEEEEELP!x
