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My son died
Asked Feb 20, 2010, 10:02 PM
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49 Answers My son died today. I just found out late tonight when his girlfriend got home from work. He died while he was taking a bath, home alone. He was 32. The police asked me to have someone drive me to his house to meet with them and someone from the coroners office. I'm sick from grief. I felt that I knew my son was going to die sooner rather than later, but this is still a shock. He had a brain tumor and status epilepticus seizures. He almost died last November from one of those seizures, even though he was already at the hospital when it happened that time, still he almost died and was in a coma and on a respirator for 3 days. This is my second son to die. My first son was killed from an accident at work in 2001.  I'm going to be sad for a long time. I feel so sick right now. I can't sleep. Just what I don't want to do, I have to have a funeral for another one of my children. No question really, just a lamentation.... |
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| Well, you've been there for me. I'm trying to be there for you, thisisit! It's not ever easy, dealing with death... Thoughts, prayers, what do we do? All we can do is try... My thoughts and prayers are with you, thisisit! That's what I have to offer right now. You're not alone though... | ||||
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| Hi Thisisit, I'm so sorry to hear that you're not doing so well. It's understandable though given your circumstances. Has your son's funeral been held yet? When you described your son's death, I felt like it's almost as if he decided to pass on, peacefully, and without pain. I'm apologize if this sounds simplistic, because I know that this does not make it any easier for you. You're the one that's left with the overwhelming pain. Please know that I've had people close to me die as well (not a child though) and I'm thinking of you and sending you love. You are not alone, and love is what other people can give you. Be open to receiving it...I'm hoping it will ease some of the pain. | ||||
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I'm still reeling from all this... But I'm doing ok. I was at the doctor yesterday for a check up and all my vitals are fine. This is going to take some time to heal from | ||||
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| I usually don't get on here however I saw your title and my heart felt for you. As bad as we may think we have it, someone is always going through something worse...I will pray for you, pray for Him to ease your pain and comfort you. No time can heal your loss. Make sure you keep God in your heart and know that even at this dark dark place, it's for a reason and your children are with you always and guarding you with wings...Your friend in your picture? Definitely keep him/her, they are the best companions and know your sorrows and joys..May you find peace. | ||||
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Thinking of you xxx | ||||
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I'm hoping that now you've got the funeral formalities out of the way, you can focus on yourself. Being fine physically is great, but it's your emotional and spiritual well-being that concerns me. Keep the people that you love around you and don't be scared to talk and share your experience ... Kat's suggestion sounded helpful. | ||||
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Thank you for also sharing this sort of thing with us! I know that it's not easy to do that with people that you don't even really know. Although, maybe we really do come to know each other on these online sites... | ||||
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