Hello everyone, sadly my husband died 9 months ago, and lately I have started having very disturbing dreams which make me feel sad for days afterwards. I am sitting in the carriage of a train when someone tells me that my husband is in the next carriage. I go to the next carriage to find him walking through to another carriage. Eventually I do catch up with him in the last carriage. He is looking very fit and healthy and very smartly dressed. I tell him that I am now confused because he had died and he was cremated. He tells me that he has come back. When I suggest that we go back home he tells me that he isn't coming back to live with me. Can anyone explain this?