Exile:
It sounds to me like you just need some help setting up a budget and learning to live within your means. Access the following website (
www.nfcc.org) and see a counselor. There is no charge and they should be able to help you.
You may also want to visit Clark Howard's website (
www.clarkhoward.com). He is an Atlanta consumer advocate who has helped thousands get their financial house in order. You may be able to listen to him on a local AM radio station, as his talk show is now syndicated nation-wide. At the very minimum, you can listen to his show over the web.
Hope this helps!
Atlanta Tax Expert