LOL, you're not bothering us. We're here to help and hopefully you'll return to relate your experience and help others. There's no bother. Imagine what good this forum would be if no one posted, being worried about bothering people.
Anyway... I wouldn't waste time talking to them, but definitely get to the courthouse with a paper in hand. Type out an "answer" to the complaint that has been filed against you.
I recommend taking it in person, take two copies and the clerks office should stamp the second copy for you to keep for your records (proof that you filed an answer, in time).
You're probably right, if the amount was charged off, the debt has probably been sold. I'd still call the original creditor if you're interested in paying, otherwise, save your money and put it towards other bills. If the original creditor (MBNA) tells you they sold the debt and you will HAVE to arrange payment with them, then forget it. The scavengers aren't worth paying (in my opinion).
I'm assuming the 'alleged' balance is pretty high. If you decide to 'attempt' to settle the account with the scavengers, I'd offer them like 10% to 15% of the stated balance. If they don't take it, I'd wait six to 12 months and try again (reminding them that in 7 years negative marks fall off of your credit report anyway).
The threat of being sued should not scare you as they are just hoping to scare you into payment. Remember, it's called UNsecured debt for a REASON! By all means, pay your house and car payments first before anything else. The creditor for those assets can grab 'em if you don't pay. Credit cards or any other unsecured debt are totally different.
If worse comes to worse, if you end up facing a sheriff execution, they should at least give you the option of lethal injection or electricution.

(tongue in cheek)
Seriously though, don't sweat it. File your answer and good luck. It's a bit stressful (been there, done that), but you'll get through it. Just get that answer filed and then update us as to where you're at and the response the collector takes.
