Like NOhelp4u said you can try music, like maybe angery music.
I have always been irritable and angery. I started drinking and doing drugs to try and overcome the anger.
That didn't help and eventually I found angery music. I Found bands that often yell there lyrics and sound angery while their lyrics actually have a positive message.
I've been sober for 2 years listening to all types of loud angery music and I don't feel helpless or pissed off.
this is a great song by Stick To Your Guns about overcoming anger
YouTube - STICK TO YOUR GUNS: This is More
and here are the lyrics
http://www.sweetslyrics.com/348111.S...Is%20More.html
This music can fall into the genre of Hardcore or Heavy Metal. Other Bands I listen to are:
For the Fallen Dreams, The Ghost Inside, Terror, etc.