Heatherrdawnc
Oct 8, 2012, 02:39 PM
Mother told children that if "dad's girlfriend" give's you anything you are to throw it away.
Daughter (6 years old) told "dad's girlfriend" that she was going to tell her mommy that "she loves both of us (girlfriend and her mother) and her brother (7 years old) blurted out "no, mommy will be mad" in a terrified manor.
Keeping phone calls short
Blaming father for calling dss, (when he didnt) and won't let him talk or see kids.
Won't take child support out on father due to her wanting to terminate his right to make his life miserable
"children" can't remember any past happiness with father.
The mother tells children about divorce, and about the father selling there toys or animals (so children will have more negative feelings towards their father)
Mother telling her 5 year old that the "girlfriend" called her mommy a ""
Mother has put them in counseling due to cover up what she has done to her own children.
Mother told father her phone was cut off for non payment, when really this whole time it was a lie so father could miss time out from talking to his children
Children are scared to go anywhere with father
When father pulls up "un-announced" the mother asks why he's there, and that he shouldn't pop up without letting her know after she sent a email saying "I guess you found better things to do then seeing your kids" when we secretly came up there...and then she complained about him coming"
Father gives gifts for children, and the mother purposely sends toys back through mail with a letter from son saying " daddy why don't you love me anymore, why do you love your other kids more then us" just to hurt the fathers feelings.
Taking out a summons for "custody and child support" a year ago and nothing has been done because the mother "likes the way things are"
Mother threatening the father to move out of state for her kids own protection
Every time father is nice to the mother the children stay on the phone for awhile, if the father does something to make the mother mad the children only stay on the phone for a couple of seconds
Involved children in so many school activities that the father has to jump through hoops just to see children
Father calls at least 3 times every night then will eventually answer the phone.
Complains when father comes up to child's school to give child their birthday present
Won't let children stay with father because she's using excuses that the "girlfriend" has threathened her kids when in all reality it's a lie
Mother told father that the children don't need him in their life, and don't ever talk about him in their home.
Told father the he can't talk or see his kids until he talks to their therapist.
Having people ride by the father's job to see when he is working... when the mother lives a hour away
Saying kids are angry with father
Saying father is a terrible dead beat father when in all reality father has tried his best to be in his children's life.
Always listening the children's conversation with father
Hangs up the phone before children are even done talking to the father
Children ask father why he don't love them anymore
Daughter (6 years old) told "dad's girlfriend" that she was going to tell her mommy that "she loves both of us (girlfriend and her mother) and her brother (7 years old) blurted out "no, mommy will be mad" in a terrified manor.
Keeping phone calls short
Blaming father for calling dss, (when he didnt) and won't let him talk or see kids.
Won't take child support out on father due to her wanting to terminate his right to make his life miserable
"children" can't remember any past happiness with father.
The mother tells children about divorce, and about the father selling there toys or animals (so children will have more negative feelings towards their father)
Mother telling her 5 year old that the "girlfriend" called her mommy a ""
Mother has put them in counseling due to cover up what she has done to her own children.
Mother told father her phone was cut off for non payment, when really this whole time it was a lie so father could miss time out from talking to his children
Children are scared to go anywhere with father
When father pulls up "un-announced" the mother asks why he's there, and that he shouldn't pop up without letting her know after she sent a email saying "I guess you found better things to do then seeing your kids" when we secretly came up there...and then she complained about him coming"
Father gives gifts for children, and the mother purposely sends toys back through mail with a letter from son saying " daddy why don't you love me anymore, why do you love your other kids more then us" just to hurt the fathers feelings.
Taking out a summons for "custody and child support" a year ago and nothing has been done because the mother "likes the way things are"
Mother threatening the father to move out of state for her kids own protection
Every time father is nice to the mother the children stay on the phone for awhile, if the father does something to make the mother mad the children only stay on the phone for a couple of seconds
Involved children in so many school activities that the father has to jump through hoops just to see children
Father calls at least 3 times every night then will eventually answer the phone.
Complains when father comes up to child's school to give child their birthday present
Won't let children stay with father because she's using excuses that the "girlfriend" has threathened her kids when in all reality it's a lie
Mother told father that the children don't need him in their life, and don't ever talk about him in their home.
Told father the he can't talk or see his kids until he talks to their therapist.
Having people ride by the father's job to see when he is working... when the mother lives a hour away
Saying kids are angry with father
Saying father is a terrible dead beat father when in all reality father has tried his best to be in his children's life.
Always listening the children's conversation with father
Hangs up the phone before children are even done talking to the father
Children ask father why he don't love them anymore