i am applying for dual italian citizenship some of the documents conain vrious spellings of names for the same person. two documens contain birth dates for one person which are off by a day. two documents contain death dates that are off by a year. the local and state vital records offices say they can do nothing. what can i do to make the documents acceptable to the ny italian consulate?

Are they currently rejecting them?
Any statements written by government officials that this is the same person?

We haven't had our appointment yet but the consulate is adamant that the names and dates be identical. It says to get the issuing department to chanage the certificates. The local and state vital records departments say they cannot make any changes nor will they attest to the fact that the names and dates repfer to the same persons.