Jul 28, 2012, 01:11 PM
My son will be 5 in Oct. he visits his father every other weekend. His father has brought up that if our son decided to live with him by the time he was 7 or 8, he can. He believes that he is old enough or if that's what he wants to give him that right...... Our son even at that age couldn't have a good enough reason to leave me and live with his father. i don't feel like even now his father doesn't do all the right things as a parent and an adult. I feel like his father "babying" him isn't good and my son uses that as a reason why he would want to live with him now or then... I believe if i was proven unfit, that is a reason for a child to live with his father. His father also mentioned that it wouldn't have to be settled in court....??? But if it is, what happens? What age?