I live in Maryland have been waiting to get divorce since forever. I waited two years like I was supposed and filed for an absolute divorce. Hired an attorney, which I am starting to regret. We just filed an order of default. How long does it take a judge to make a decision about granting the order and getting me a court day? My ex said to continue without him . He won't come to any hearings, or answer any papers. I am tired of being tied to this person. Just need a light on what my outlook is?