Claimer
May 29, 2012, 10:02 AM
Ok, before you all get on the band wagon and tell me that Iīm a home wrecker etc let me explain my particular situation.
I moved to another country a couple of years ago (I originally came from another moved to country with a girl where it didnīt work out) I was attending language classes in this new country where I met someone. One thing led to another and before we new it we winded up in bed together. She then told me that she was married. I admit that we carried it on for a few more weeks as Iīve never felt such a connection with a girl in my whole life.
We decided though that we should end it as it just was not right. She said she needed to try and make it work with him and so I said a sad goodbye and got over it. Now and again we would always say hi and that it was a shame it was bad timing and that we couldnīt find out what wouldīve happened if we were both single.
Ok skip forward 8 months and we started talking/writing more and more, so much so that we arranged to meet to say hi which is when she told me that she was upset about her husband who she thought was cheating on her. She told me that its always been tough and that she has never related to him and was so sad to "drop" me 8 months before. She says that she still feels affection for him but is not in love with him anymore.
So, for a month just gone we ended up meeting and having the most wonderful time together.. we slept together 4 times and had the most passionate and intimate time. She told me that its getting impossible now to keep the closeness for two men as its not something she can do. She said that she's never cheated before but doesn't now feel guilty at all. The other day though she told me that he could sense something wrong and is now phoning and checking on her a lot. She cannot leave as 1, she can't afford it and 2, if he calls for divorce she will be kicked out of the country.
We have left it for a week but have arranged to meet again as we both admit that we miss each other way too much. We know its wrong and we know its dangerous but I think we are falling hard for each other. I know this situation sucks and someone if not all of us are going to get hurt when the hits the fan but if the feelings are that strong surely that can't be ignore.. I know, I know.. she should leave him first, but she is stuck. What the would you guys do? I need to walk away right...
Btw Her and her husband (apparently) has said that they wouldnīt have lived together or got married to start with when she moved over. She is (obviously) not happy. Iīve tried to give you this message in a nutshell but there is a lot more to this.. when we look at each other it's that feeling of just "knowing" that this is real for both of us. Thx for listening guys.. and donīt give me too much :-/
I moved to another country a couple of years ago (I originally came from another moved to country with a girl where it didnīt work out) I was attending language classes in this new country where I met someone. One thing led to another and before we new it we winded up in bed together. She then told me that she was married. I admit that we carried it on for a few more weeks as Iīve never felt such a connection with a girl in my whole life.
We decided though that we should end it as it just was not right. She said she needed to try and make it work with him and so I said a sad goodbye and got over it. Now and again we would always say hi and that it was a shame it was bad timing and that we couldnīt find out what wouldīve happened if we were both single.
Ok skip forward 8 months and we started talking/writing more and more, so much so that we arranged to meet to say hi which is when she told me that she was upset about her husband who she thought was cheating on her. She told me that its always been tough and that she has never related to him and was so sad to "drop" me 8 months before. She says that she still feels affection for him but is not in love with him anymore.
So, for a month just gone we ended up meeting and having the most wonderful time together.. we slept together 4 times and had the most passionate and intimate time. She told me that its getting impossible now to keep the closeness for two men as its not something she can do. She said that she's never cheated before but doesn't now feel guilty at all. The other day though she told me that he could sense something wrong and is now phoning and checking on her a lot. She cannot leave as 1, she can't afford it and 2, if he calls for divorce she will be kicked out of the country.
We have left it for a week but have arranged to meet again as we both admit that we miss each other way too much. We know its wrong and we know its dangerous but I think we are falling hard for each other. I know this situation sucks and someone if not all of us are going to get hurt when the hits the fan but if the feelings are that strong surely that can't be ignore.. I know, I know.. she should leave him first, but she is stuck. What the would you guys do? I need to walk away right...
Btw Her and her husband (apparently) has said that they wouldnīt have lived together or got married to start with when she moved over. She is (obviously) not happy. Iīve tried to give you this message in a nutshell but there is a lot more to this.. when we look at each other it's that feeling of just "knowing" that this is real for both of us. Thx for listening guys.. and donīt give me too much :-/