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Paul2011
May 28, 2012, 02:55 PM
The last time I saw her she didn't have a boyfriend and told me she dosen't know me that much and said, "if we can still be friends." That was last year. I decided to go visit her at my old high school and I saw her holding hands with someone. I didn't talk to her that much or tell her how I still feel about because her boyfriend was right next to her.

We both go to different schools so that's why I went to go visit. This was the second time this happen to me. This happen to me last year before she broke up with her old boyfriend. I had her phone number, but I don't have it anymore.

I would tell her how I still feel on Facebook, but I rather tell her in person. I'm going to be seeing her soon, so I was thinking about drawing something for her to show her I still like her. I drew pictures for her before so I know she will like it, but I don't know if I should give it to her because she has a boyfriend and I don't want to ruin her relationship. I don't know if she has boyfriend still.

I was also thinking about making a card saying nice things about her, but I can just tell her face to face. I know I still have a chance with the girl I like. She "said, she was sorry for hurting me and also said, "I was a nice guy." She really liked the drawings I gave her.

I just want to show her that I still have feelings for her. She's still in high school, so things can change. What can I do to show it. Please help.

someoneanswerme
May 28, 2012, 04:24 PM
Ah this must be hard for you watching her be with someone else. But honestly I know you feel the need to tell her how you feel, but this may ruin friendship between you two. She's in a happy relationship, telling her you like her will just make things worse and awkward. She may also tell her boyfriend and he might not approve of it and then it may lead to her not being able to speak to you. I wouldn't risk it, you need to move on. She's happy in a relationship, be happy for her.

Best of luck x

joypulv
May 28, 2012, 05:29 PM
High school relationships from different schools rarely work. But give her a drawing, say your heart goes pitter pat, whatever you want, but without desperation or pushiness - just sort of the sweetness of 'oh well I really like you even though you have a boyfriend.' She will file it away for when she breaks up!

talaniman
May 28, 2012, 11:23 PM
I am a guy, and can't imagine telling a female you don't even talk to on a regular basis how you feel about her. If you were on talking terms you would know if she was already with some one and back off.

Its really simple instead of professing feelings ask for her number, then at least you can find out what her status is before professing feelings, and maybe get friendly.