Mike5055
May 24, 2012, 01:55 PM
So, my girlfriend of nearly three years is going into Med School this coming August so life is a bit hectic. About three weeks ago, she was doing work for her lab in Switzerland, but when she came back, she all of a sudden said she needs space. Before she left for Switzerland, everything was great. I even saw her once after the trip, which seemed fine. She even brought chocolate back for myself and my family. Also, we are in a pretty serious relationship. We've even discussed getting married in a few years once Med School is nearly done.
So, it has been a few weeks now. She is still asking for space. I went from talking to her a little bit to just not talking at all now because, well, that's what she asked for. She says she still loves me, says she still wants to be with me. I do trust her, so should I just assume she is feeling stressed right now? It doesn't seem like anything major went wrong, does it? I mean, she even brought chocolate back for my family. Seems odd if you were intending on breaking up with the person.
Any ideas? I'm actually rather upset by this. I actually do care about this girl (and I am old enough and experienced enough to tell the difference between love and infatuation/lust). Not sure what to do at this point other than give her total space and hope she comes around.
So, it has been a few weeks now. She is still asking for space. I went from talking to her a little bit to just not talking at all now because, well, that's what she asked for. She says she still loves me, says she still wants to be with me. I do trust her, so should I just assume she is feeling stressed right now? It doesn't seem like anything major went wrong, does it? I mean, she even brought chocolate back for my family. Seems odd if you were intending on breaking up with the person.
Any ideas? I'm actually rather upset by this. I actually do care about this girl (and I am old enough and experienced enough to tell the difference between love and infatuation/lust). Not sure what to do at this point other than give her total space and hope she comes around.