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Angela120908
May 21, 2012, 07:51 AM
My husband and I have recently separated. He stills lives in the house and refuses to leave but will not pay rent either. The council have said to call the police if he does not leave but when I told him that he called his dad and his dad came over. I was alone at home with my 3 yr old daughter and he and his dad took it upon themselves to come and intimidate me in my home and demand that I allow his son to carry on living here until he is ready to leave. They threatened me with lawyers and are trying to take my daughter away from me. What do I do. I have no other family close by my brother lives 30mins away and has said to come stay with him but my husband and his family are refusing for me to go even 30mins away with my daughter. I have told them countless times that I would never stop them from seeing her. My brother wants me to move closer to him as he does not trust that they will not come and intimidate and threaten me again, while I'm on my own.

tickle
May 21, 2012, 12:15 PM
Is it a legal separation, that does make a difference; and is there a court order in place for shared visitation? Unless you have a lawyer involved for yourself, you are going to have difficulties with this situation. If there is no court order involved, and you are being intimidated and threatened, move in with your brother and consult a lawyer. Get a restraining order against him and his family so they will stop harassing you (if this is what you call it in the UK).

Your landlord is correct. Call the police if this happens again so you have evidence of intimidation at least.