TrentValley99
May 21, 2012, 06:36 AM
I have been friends with a guy for over 2 years and recently I borrowed some money from him which I didn't pay back for a year and he didn't ask for, then around January time I sat down and calculated how much money I owed him (£500) and decided now's a good time to pay it back as he has been so patient and understanding, so while trying to find the right moment and minimise any awkwardness he started acting funny. He would say things like "Oh why don't you pay me back the money you owe me" out of the blue, and without reason, in a jokey tone. I found this weird and it got to the point it was humiliating me, little did he know that any day now I'd be paying back the full sum.
He kept dropping these kinds of snide little jokes and I confronted him saying look have your money back I don't want to talk to you.
Now we have been friends for a while and had our ups and downs so he should have been understanding, after that he took the money and walked away, we haven't spoken for around 4 weeks now and I really miss him, he was my rock through everything and whenever I try calling him to apologise he just shouts at me and swears. I don't know why he's acting like this and I feel so helpless, he's just changed now and used to respect me so much and be there for me.
How do I get him back? I really do miss him, I did make a mistake but that's because he was hurting me by saying all those things which he claimed were completely random.
He kept dropping these kinds of snide little jokes and I confronted him saying look have your money back I don't want to talk to you.
Now we have been friends for a while and had our ups and downs so he should have been understanding, after that he took the money and walked away, we haven't spoken for around 4 weeks now and I really miss him, he was my rock through everything and whenever I try calling him to apologise he just shouts at me and swears. I don't know why he's acting like this and I feel so helpless, he's just changed now and used to respect me so much and be there for me.
How do I get him back? I really do miss him, I did make a mistake but that's because he was hurting me by saying all those things which he claimed were completely random.