My boyfriend and I have been having little fights here and there so today he sent me this text:

Listen I've been doing some long thinking and the way things are going between us I think we should take a break from seeing each other as it seems we suffocating each other meanwhile I think we should use this time to do an introspection and know exactly what we want from each other and figure out how to get it! Because in all honesty our relationship is taking a beating seems we don't understand where we are and that's why we aren't moving towards a common goal as far as my observations are correct! All the little fights and getting back at each other I personally think its immaturity issues in terms of the relationship & the manner of reasoning and compromise isn't meeting either of us expectations hence why I think some time off is what We need as I don't think we fully appreciate each other. As I don't want to be in a relationship where I'm not happy and I'm sure u feel the same way.

What should I do because I really love him I don't want to lose him?

He wants a break, let him have one because his mind is made up, so you have little choice but to accept it. For now, you have already lost him.

How old are you both and what's all the conflict, and arguing about?

His 24 I am 22 mostly the arguments are about him not to wanting to accept when his wrong.when his mad he doesn't answer my calls and that gets to me to a point where I have to go to his house and beg him to talk to me... me taking some joke seriously

YOU really do need to back off! Proving him wrong and wanting him to accept it on your terms is a losing proposition. Stop it! If he is wrong shouldn't he be chasing YOU!?

Leave him alone, you push too much, and much to hard.

What should I do in the meantime... I am hurting so bad because I didn't expect this at all?

After all the arguing, how could you not have seen it coming? This is not how a happy healthy relationship works. For now do your own thing with family, friends, and activities until you are cool, calm, collected, and under control, of yourself, and your actions.

So today we were suppose to go to his work function but now couldn't because he asked for a break.he updated a status on fb saying:had a great time today good company,good music wish that certain special lady was there with me but I guess such is life

Stop cyber stalking, as it does no good and serves no purpose but to keep you riled up. Its stops you from effectively handling your business. Your business is to regroup, and accept that life goes on without him.

You already knew he was moving on, but he knew it long before you did.