My partner who I live with just doesn't seem interested in sex with me I don't think I have ever given her an orgasm which kills me I'm 45 she is 48 so it's not like we don't have a clue. She started saying she was tired and she always seems dry she said she thinks she's going through the change but she had a full historectomy 10 years ago shouldn't that have happened before. Latly it's been a bad back and then sickness general feeling unwell now I don't push it and I think I'm kind and loving I do the housework iron her cloths for work flowers cook meals and pay her lots of attention I talk and listen to her but she never seems to open up. Before we met she had a bit of a wild past partying etc had been with about 15 guys in 8 years don't know if that's a lot I have had 3 woman in that time she told me she had herpes when we met and had caught it from her ex husband this rocked me a bit but I stayed because I love her very much she does cuddle me and says she loves me but her action may say otherwise we are due to marry in September but I'm so worried she has lost interest can anyone help.

Maybe interest in sex, hopefully momentarily, like she said, she is going through some changes. Interest in you might not have ended though, apart from the sex, everything else seems to be going OK...