May 10, 2012, 09:04 PM
iam having a very hard time with my girlfriend, we have been together for ten years and i cant believe were still together. I think in my case the reason i haven't left her was because of our childern, were been on a rollercoaster ride these past ten years. Not to say that its all because of her, i know i have issues that i have not dealt with yet, but iam making an effort by seen a psychologist, and iam a in motion towards dealing with my problems. my girlfriend is also seeing a psychologist and were just in the begining stages of our healing. but one thing is driving me crazy, its that my girlfriend is always on the defence, and maybe at times iam in the wrong, but it seems to me thats their is no control on my girlfriend behalf, and when she gets angry, its always bring tears to her eyes, when shes going through her tantrums and i just cant help but to fall into the arguement most of the time because of the intensity, over such insignificant issues. iam not going to give up on my family or my girlfriend, i love them way too much, and thats why iam here just to hear what some of you think of my situation.