May 9, 2012, 03:15 AM
hi. my boyfriend and i have been going out for 3 and a half years.we have a daughter who turned one recently. my boyfriend's younger brother has a 2yr old son with this girl that we'll call Alice- very sweet 22 year old. the brother (we'll call Mark) is 26.mark found another gal and has been cheating on alice. my boyfriend and thier older sister know this other girl and entertain her. he took me and our daughter to the same girl's place to collect 'somethign' he never said what. i ofcourse told Alice because i wouldnt want that happening to me and no one telling me. mark was furious with my boyfriend for taking me there and now my boyfriend blames me for all the trouble that's errupted i.e alice went off and broke off wiht mark , my boyfriend says i'm trying to cut their family up and destroy the harmony and it turned into a nasty argument where we said a lot of bad stuff to each other. so we broke up but i still luv him. i would like him to grow up and see the wrongs of his ways but he seems to want nothign to do with me. did he ever luv me? or has he been looking for a way out all along? cos he's always accusing me of cheating. infact a mutual friend told me he once tooka girl to his place and wanted to spend the night there- has he been using me all along and strining me along? how can he be so callous and mean adn walk away from me and his dota without a back ward glance? how come we women are willign to hold on and pray and fight yet men just up and leave? i feel betrayed adn disapointed and am all in tears - angry and confused and soooo depressed. why me?