Ive been married for more than 3 years.things didnt go well from the begining with him beeing depressed and out of work for almost 2 years.didnt want to leave him then cuz i thought any good wife will stand by her husband in hard times.things got better for him but not for us.its like i didnt existed in his life anymore or i was just a housemate that he ocasionaly kisses.hardly any physical contact was made in the years since we are married.ive left him now but didnt divorce as divorce in my country takes 4 years.he keeps texting me that he wont chase after me and he will never beg for my love or for me to come back home.i know he s very upset now and ive given him a proper shock but i also belive that he will not fight for me,or us.its heartbreaking to realize that the man that you love so much is not willing to fight for you.thanks

if he said that i would wait the 4 years. good luck be strong