Violated me for going to North Carolina for my job but I called and told them left it on voice mail didn't do public service or anger mang probation officer knew that I did not have a car and she said that they would work with me never failed a drug test, have held a job the whole time I have been on probation, have my own house pay child support?

Sorry it does not work like that, you ask permission first and get, normally written permission to travel. You don't call and leave a voice mail that you are going.