Asslamualekum,
My name is heena,I am married and have a daughter also.My daughter is 3.5 years old. I had done love marriage with a non muslim guy named vinod but he got converted to muslim before marriage only.he don't go for namaz except jummah,don't read quraan pak as wel by saying that he is very busy and don't have time to learn quraan.

Do you do longer love him? Is it just because of religion that you feel this way? He converted for you, didn't he? Are you willing to break up this marriage with a small child, who probably loves him? Is there more to this story?

I am not Muslim so do not know how to proceed with tallak, if you just want that information. There are probably legal differences by country too. If you are hesitant about asking family or an imam, ask a few close female friends.

Asslamualekum,my husband always force me for sex any time but I don't like all this I just hate this word sex.so want divorce because I can't bare this again and again. Wel I am working and I have a friend,he understands me very well he always help me regarding my problems,and he love me now I think I am also getting attarckted towards him but again he is non muslim he told me that he will never force me to change my religion and the baby's religion but can't change his cast also.I want to marry him he told me that he will do nikkah with me please help me what to do now? I really want to marry him can't we get married and I can follow my religion only please help me and answer my question as soon as possible I really want to ask before doing something but can't stay with my husband any more.

Thanks but I really don't want to ask my friends about it.I am confused what should I do because whenever we go to his place I have to put sindur and behave like non muslims and he want me to continue this things.

I'm not agree with it. If your husband does not want to follow Muslim culture so, it's not enough reason to break down relation. I want to say one thing about it. You're Muslim and your husband is Hindu so He never force you to be Hindu because, he loves you and like that you follow your religious. This is one of best respect towards your culture and religious. So, why should you force him to be Muslim or follow certain rules over there. Whether he loves you or not that's important. It's all about life and enjoy every moment with your partner. If you are enjoying yourself with him exclude this issue so there is no reason to leave him alone.

In your 1st post you say your husband Vinod converted to muslim, just to get married to u. that shows how much he loves u. it is really difficult to convert, specially from a hindu to muslim or muslim to hindu. You know how both religions differ from each other,,
He converted, and didn't ask you to convert instead. As for the guy your seeing now, he is unwilling to convert. Can't u see? He is not that serious about u. you are attracted towards him and hence your sexual feelings towards Vinod is gone. Hence you feel vinod is forcing you to have sex.
How old are u? U seem to be very immature,, my guess, you must be 24-26...

No its not like that I don't have any feeling nw for vinod, I am 25 I have a daughter as well.but some where I was not satisfied with this marriage from the start it self,I got married because I had taken 20000 from him,and now I am not getting attract to that person but then not happy with my husband because he don't have time for me and my daughter,he always be at his office for work he comes when he need me.didnt go out with me and my baby.what to do and now I am working and he want me to put all my money in his acount he want me to be simple when I go to my off.and when I be with him he want me to do all the thing what he want. He can't trust me and want me to trust him every time.

Hmmm,, I guessed right,, you are very immature,, this feelings you have for your colleague is not love, its just an infatuation,, maybe Vinod was an infatuation too, but if you had doubts on marrying him since the beginning, why marry? 1st you say LOVE marriage, then you say its because you owed him 20k,, what's the truth? Rs.20,000 is not that huge an amount. You could have worked and returned it instead of marrrying him. I feel it's a lie to cover your story. You are just trying to get some pity. If indeed you married him because you owed him money, why did you ask him to change his religion? Y do you nag him to do namazor accept jummah? Specially when your having an affair...

Well you did something to lose his trust,, your having an affair with your colleague,,
U say your husband is in office all day and comes home and wants you to do what he wants,, if you mean sex, be fortunate that he wants to have sex with you n not some other woman.
You are the one at fault here, you are having an affair, you are losing interest in him,, you are nothing but a B***H.

Oh, please divorce Vinod immediately,,,, itz a better life for him than being cheated by the woman he loves. he might be devastated for a few months, may be a year, but at least, rest of his life will be better. I wish him a lot of success in life.remember this, you cheated on Vinod, your god allah will show you the consequences.

The problem I hear is that you married your husband for love and now love someone who might be no different. How are we strangers online to know what one relationship has that the other one doesn't? Of course you husband works all the time - you are young and have a child and he wants security for the future or loss of job or business. If you wanted fun and romance, you should have postponed marriage and worked. It sounds like you are using Islam as an excuse - one man converts for you, the next one is willing to convert for you, but that's not what most of a marriage is about.

If you don't want sex every night, sit down after dinner and before you go to bed and say so. Work out a compromise. You work, you take care of the home and child, and you are exhausted too. Say so calmly. And if you want to keep some money each paycheck for a little spending money of your own, work out a compromise there too. He needs to respect the fact that you work as much as he does, even if some of it is at home, and you deserve more say in the marriage.