ok i was at my friends birthday party and we all had to swich off taking care of the little girls there when it was my turn her older step brother that i sort of like had to take care of them with me and we had to play truth or dare nothing seriouse happened but the when it was my time he seemed nervouse because im closest to his age rather than 7 and 5 but thank God the little girl only told me to jump up and down then all of a souden he started to smile and said yea in this weiord way i gave him a dirty look and when i jumped up and down he was staring at my boobs and im tierd of this allways happening and i was wereing a black shirt to try and cover it so nothing like this would happen but they were still really notice able how can i prevent this
Hello there,
One, those are one of the things that you need to be proud of, they're part of being a woman, no use trying to hide it.
Second, no matter how much you try and cover them, men will always stare at them.
Third, well, try a padded bra, like a Playtex...with front closing. They a little bit more expensive than regular bras, but they hold them in place, shape them gorgeously and make you a little more sure about "jumping up and down" without feeling self-conscious.
Another thing.... don't be ashamed or feel weird. He might just be a sleazeball for all you know, then, I would just stay away from him. I guess his mommy didn't explain him how to treat a lady. Anyhow... you need to be happy with what you got, they're part of you, no need in hiding you're a woman (while he's still a "boy").
Hope this helps. I'm gonna say "The world need you radiant", which is a little something one of my best friends told me. Look at yourself in the mirror every morning, and tell yourself that... it'll help like a charm. :D
