Oct 7, 2010, 02:03 PM
I have been dating my boyfriend for 2 and 1/2 years up until recently we were inseperable, I practiclly lived with him. However, due to our personality issues since August we have spent time apart. He basically wanted to get back together, and work things out. Meanwhile I needed more time to think if his personality issues were something I could really live with for the rest of my life. Well I just graduated from college in May and had a job waiting for me. I do not make crazy money - but I am on salary make 41k a year being that I am only 22, however I have saved throughout the summer and my parents give me a good amount of money for graduation. I have wanted to buy a new car for the past 2 years, however the convinced me to wait till after college. I finally decided on a car, and my boyfriend basically said if I buy it I am stupid and putting myself into debt for no reason. However, the car is not a lot of money I would be only financing 10k! I feel like he is trying to prevent me from doing things I want to do such as when I told him I wanted to go back to school - we faught for a week because it was a stupid choice. He is ten years older then me so maybe he has seen what I haven't. He is also very wealthy so he does not understand what it is like to finance things etc. Please help! He said if I buy the car it just strengths the idea that our personality differences are very strong.