CallofDutyQueen100
Jul 11, 2010, 05:16 AM
My step-mom is planning to adopt me, but my birth-mom just called me for the first time in 6 years and promised that when I get back from vacation we'll hang out. Don't get me wrong, I love my step-mom as if we're related by blood and my step-mom loves me as if she gave birth to me, but the temptation to see my birth-mom is really big. I can't have my feet in both worlds. My dad said that if I want to be able to have my step-mom adopt me I can't hang out with my birth-mom.
My Step-mom is also the best thing that has ever happened to my family. (aka my dad and I) I also now have a little (half) brother who is 2 years old. Except I love him so much I don't think of him as a "half" brother. I think of my birth-mom's son a half brother though. My birth-mom taught me that crying is pointless and she has NEVER said "I love you" to me.
Anyway, I'm conflicted: should I see my birth-mom OR stay away from her till the day we go to court so my step-mom can adopt me?
I just need advice about weather it's a good IDEA to see my birth-mom not weather I SHOULD see her.
Thanks :D
My Step-mom is also the best thing that has ever happened to my family. (aka my dad and I) I also now have a little (half) brother who is 2 years old. Except I love him so much I don't think of him as a "half" brother. I think of my birth-mom's son a half brother though. My birth-mom taught me that crying is pointless and she has NEVER said "I love you" to me.
Anyway, I'm conflicted: should I see my birth-mom OR stay away from her till the day we go to court so my step-mom can adopt me?
I just need advice about weather it's a good IDEA to see my birth-mom not weather I SHOULD see her.
Thanks :D