I feel like I'm growing old, experienced little of my love life, never been in reciprocated love, and I'm getting tired of this "just exist" life. I'm not terrible at socializing, I just can't get to meet a nice girl that truly likes me.

What would you do, if you had a month free time? Just you and the world, no work or family to worry about.

I'm in western europe, don't have money to buy luxuries, and although I have many friends, most are already living their life's with girlfriends.

Romance finds us when we least expect it, so line up all activities that involve things you enjoy with other people, and have a great time. Plan ahead and waste no time.

Vacations are a great time to see people you have missed also, especially FAMILY.

Depending on your age...backpacking!

Walking, time to think,freedom from every day stresses....a holiday from your life....id love it!

Take the chance and do something,get out there,see the world...all the adventures are ready...are you?

Depends on age, I would spend it sitting at this computer answering questions.

Go out and meet new people. You might have a lot of friends, but how many new friends have you made in the last while?

Go to social gatherings. Travel. Volunteer. Put yourself out there to explore the world.

I'm 23.

Although backpacking is awesome, I think going all alone can be a little scary... But I will look into groups, or common places to stay.

Check online for some ideas. My son backpacked through the UK, and had lined up hostels along the way. You can really do it cheap, and safe, as well as meeting people who are doing the exact same thing you are.

Good luck.

Hi, anony12321!

My daughter and one of her friends went to Ireland a couple of years ago. They stayed in hostels the whole time. It was easy to find on the Internet how to arrange to stay in whatever hostel.

Thanks!

If backpacking is appealing to you, then I'm sure you can find a variety of organizations in your area (if you are staying in a somewhat large city), that will help you find people who also want to go backpacking. Search online for such organizations.

Just keep in mind however, that happiness isn't always a part of being in a relationship or trying to find that "special someone." It's best to wait for the right person, but before you do that, you have to find out what makes you happy and how you can be happy yourself. It's not easy, but it's definitely worth it.