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louise9
Dec 13, 2009, 02:10 PM
Not sure if this is the right subject but

My friends daughter, is being bullied at school, she is always ignored and left on her own in the corner, if she says one wrong thing she get a mouth full, she gets told to do stuff, she thinks she doesn't belong in the school. Also sometimes she will be talking to people on msn and Facebook and the will be all nice and then they will turn on her and be evil.

The other day, she got told she is a phsco, she need lipo suction, she looks like she is pregnant, she needs to get her head checked out and she got told that her hole form thinks she is a wierdo and she is a little .

I have told her to tell her mum and dad which she has done, but we're not sure weather we should see what they school says, demand her to be moved to another form or just completely move schools so she never has to deal with anyone in the school again?

Please give any ideas you think could help her out.

twinkiedooter
Dec 13, 2009, 02:13 PM
First of all, how old is the daughter and what grade is she in?

louise9
Dec 13, 2009, 02:14 PM
She is in year 8 and she is 13

redhed35
Dec 13, 2009, 02:17 PM
If the school knows about it,they can deal with it.. as well as he parents.

Most schools have an anti bullying policy in place.

As regards the use of the computer at home,if her parents know they can monitor the use of it.

Bullying can leave life long tramatic problems.

louise9
Dec 13, 2009, 02:18 PM
Her mum is going in to talk to a seniour member of staff in the morning, but she's not sure what will happen

redhed35
Dec 13, 2009, 02:23 PM
her mum is going in to talk to a seniour member of staff in the morning, but shes not sure what will happen

I hope that the school will take the bullying seriously.

They will want names etc, they will want to speak the to girl... as for what will happen after that,it depends on the schools policy.

louise9
May 15, 2010, 03:00 PM
If a girl was being ignored in school by most people, she hated it and wanted to move but her mum didn't seem to care and ignored her as well.

What would be the good thing for the girl to do in this situations.

Please if you have any advise on things like these feel free to add!
Thank you

Fr_Chuck
May 15, 2010, 03:10 PM
What do you mean "being ignored" and by who, other kids, teachers ?

She studies hard, makes good grades and does what she want in joining after school activities.

And one can not, at least in the US, just change schools, schools are assigned by where you live, unless you go to private schools.

justcurious55
May 15, 2010, 03:28 PM
https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/children/what-should-do-424710.html

Is this the same child?

louise9
May 16, 2010, 02:46 AM
Oh sorry justcurious 55 it is, sorry I didn't read it properly it is the same person.

ScottGem
May 16, 2010, 01:40 PM
First, please don't use the Comments feature to post a follow-up. Second please don't start multiple threads on the same issue. Finally, please don't pull the "my friend" ploy when you are talking about yourself. You are fairly anonymous here so we don't care whether you are referring to yourself or not.

As for the problem, have you spoken to a guidance counselor at school?

louise9
May 18, 2010, 09:57 AM
It is my friend I would say it was me if it was but it not, it on the way to be sorted now any way, oh and didn't realise I had already put it up